An Easy Way To Get Through To Your Man

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Published: 16th May 2013
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You have heard it before, and I won't hesitate to say it again, communication is key to any successful relationship. And if you can't get through to your man, you're not communicating yet.

When you find a man to love, to be your boyfriend, and possibily your husband, you want to find a guy who shares the same interests and some activities that you like to do. If you're both completely different, it's hard to get through to each other because it's like you're living in Venus and he's in Mars. But there is a fine line between being completely the same and being totally different, you need to find the right balance so that you have something to hare when you spend time together.

The easiest way to get through to your man is by talking about what he likes, and then changing the topic to what you like.Many times, a woman can get her way by just being cute and cuddly as she flirts with her man. When this happens, you might feel as though you could control him, and you can. At least temporarily.

It might seems to bother you if you think this way is more manipulative, but it's not like that if it doesn't bother him. In fact, the key to good communicating is feeling good. If you can talk to him in a way that makes him feel open, he will almost seem unaware of other topics you talk about, but you will have bookmarked it in his mind, and opened the topic for later. Then you can then talk about the issue another day.

Create interesting conversations the next day and then talk about your topic to be successful with getting what you want. Don't worry too much, conversations are simply made up of a series of answering and asking questions, so you have plenty of opportunities to ask about your topic. The questions you ask will determine if your man remembers what you said and whether or not he is looking for a way out it. You will know if your man is committed to you or not.

You need to discover that he does not think the same way that you do. He doesn't dissect every disagreement or little silent moments like we do. I dwell on things that he doesn't even realize has happened. So as you just change the way you approaching things with your man you should notice the difference to how your boyfriend responds. When you begin to looking at things the way he does, it definitely put you in charge. Men want to have fun with you, but they dont realize that hes responding in the way he'd talk to another man and that makes the communication difficult because you are a woman. If you master translating his man talk, then you can get him to live in a woman's world!

To get through to your man you need to start thinking like you boy friend to figure out what he wants and what you need to do. Think of it as a game in which your mission is to get to understand your man. In the science of psychology, this is called empathy. Your life and relationship can really change so much for the better when you learn to use empathy. It is the skill to be able feel for another person in a similar way they are feeling. Dont let things just slip away without doing what you can to get through to your man. It really makes a difference. You can find a good man that you love. You really can.



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